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      <image:caption>What is an End of Life Doula?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Source: Dr Kathryn Mannix. (2025, March 31). Presentation to University of Auckland Faculty of Health and Medical Science [online].</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is a picture from the menu board of a restaurant we visited while on holiday in Phuket, Thailand in 2016… we found it hilarious at the time, however we should have known we were all going to wake up the next day with upset tummies and not be able to leave our room for three days!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Useful Links - What Losing My Two Children Taught Me About Grief - Make it stand out</image:title>
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