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      <image:caption>What is an End of Life Doula?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Factors that influence our Death Systems</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Me and my childhood best friend Leanne, April 2024.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Katherine, Mandy &amp; I on one of our walk and talks together, May 2022.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Source: Dr Kathryn Mannix. (2025, March 31). Presentation to University of Auckland Faculty of Health and Medical Science [online].</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mary Forrest Engel &amp; Henry</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Reflections - Steamed Crab? - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is a picture from the menu board of a restaurant we visited while on holiday in Phuket, Thailand in 2016… we found it hilarious at the time, however we should have known we were all going to wake up the next day with upset tummies and not be able to leave our room for three days!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Copyright Jana Scott - TERRESTRIAL</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My “mind map” that guides me in this space</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Image taken from “The Patient’s Perspective” End-of-Life-Essentials</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/what-losing-my-two-children-taught-me-about-grief</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-03-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Resources - What Losing My Two Children Taught Me About Grief - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Available on Amazon</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/kathryn-mannix-what-happens-when-we-die</loc>
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    <lastmod>2022-10-12</lastmod>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/resources-for-how-to-talk-to-children-about-death</loc>
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    <lastmod>2022-09-07</lastmod>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/death-literacy-why-its-important-to-talk-about-dying</loc>
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    <lastmod>2022-07-01</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/coffin-club-musical</loc>
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    <lastmod>2022-07-01</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/lucy-hone-3-secrets-of-resilient-grieving</loc>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.itallmatters.co.nz/resources/peter-saul-lets-talk-about-dying</loc>
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